After becoming parent, couples are hardly able to give time to each other. The transition from 2 to 3 is the most profound challenge a couple faces. There seems to be everything less for the couple – less time, less sleep, less communication, less privacy and less money. But as we all know spending some good quality time is very important – it can build intimacy, strengthen your bonding and provide your children with an example of how their own future relationship should be.
Here are some ideas for you, which you can follow if you really want to spend some quality. private time with your better half.
Recreate your first date
This is one of the most romantic things that you can try out doing if you had one. Dress up elegantly trying to impress your partner and go out for a date. Talk about all the topics that you think would interest your partner and don't talk about your office work or household stuff. Pretend as if this is the first time that you both are meeting with one another. If there wasn't anything special about your first date, then ask your partner about his or her fantasies about first date and try creating that ambience.
Break a sweat together
You both can join a gym together to break your sweat. Or else you can even sport together. If none of these things are possible for you, you can at least go for a walk or jog with your partner. Running on the treadmill or track is a romantic option as well.
Steal away on a weekend
When planning your weekend trip, consider a place where your kids will be able to enjoy and have fun without disturbing you both. Look for places that offer farmstay accommodation in Victoria. These places are children's favourite because they get to see sheep, cattle, a variety of native birds and animals loitering around in the farm. They get a huge area to play as well. While they have fun in the working farm, you both can relax and spend some quality private time in the clean and comfortable rooms of the farmstay.
There are many other ways that you can opt for to spend some quality time with your partner. You can go for a dinner date, a long drive, a water park or do something unusual to impress your beloved.